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Crystal and Gemstones- Love Gemstones Part 3

Updated: Feb 5, 2022

Rose Quartz

Looking to spice up your love life? Rose quartz is the stone for lovers. Whether you’re trying build some romance or simply looking for ways to better appreciate yourself, this rose-colored stone will help love find its way into your heart. Rose Quartz is indeed one of the most powerful stones to attract love and open the heart to love and trust. Having a Rose Quartz nearby increases self-love, understanding, and communication between yourself and others. It’s also a stone that attracts unconditional love and is known for its feminine energy of peace, tenderness, healing, and comfort.

If you’re having a bad day and you feel like nobody understands you, place a Rose Quartz at your bedside to attract love affirmation. You can also hold the stone while affirming yourself with the words, “My life is full of love. I attract love into my life. I am a magnet for romance and love.” Trust me, it does wonders.


Rubies were once known to ancient Hindus as ratnarajor the “King of Precious Stones,” and for good reason. The rich, deep red of Rubies instantly reminds one of love, power, and passion. This stone was believed to contain the bloodline of humanity and was used as an amulet to drive off death and disease. From the Latin word rubeus, meaning red, you can use this stone to empower the Base Chakra and increase vitality or chi. Using it can make a person feel happy to exist in the physical world, and it’s also used to attract love—particularly faithful and passionate commitments. Wearing it gives the bearer freedom from destructive emotional holds and bestows empowerment to those who think they’re inadequate.


The Moonstone has always been a significant stone for lovers and is a traditional wedding gift in some cultures. Moonstones hold the power of luna—the moon­—and has been associated with women and fertility cycles. It is said that wearing a Moonstone during lovemaking on a night of a full moon will harmonize the body with the natural lunar cycle. It’s also recommended to place 12 Moonstones around a room and one Moonstone under the bed for fidelity and fertility. On the one hand, it is a great stone for self-care. Introspection through this stone unearths deep, forgotten memories that have been feared to be missing. On the other hand, this stone has been known to assist people in love. It’s known to help people with their first relationship, provide comfort to lovers who need to keep their love secret, and reunite old lovers.

Pink Sapphire

Pink Sapphires are just as powerful as the legendary Blue Sapphires. These crystals are known to bring resilience and strength in challenging times. They also assist the bearer through transitions of life from falling in love to letting go. Wearing Pink Sapphire amulets or jewelry will help protect the bearer from emotional or psychic situations that they have no control over (such as accidents, natural disorders, etc.). Pink Sapphires help focus the mind, ease tension, dispel negative thoughts, and help overcome depressive tendencies. They’re stones that help strengthen the heart to find love, let go of bad romantic encounters, and forgive the self and others for the past. If you’re currently in a relationship, Pink Sapphires also bring joyful, playful, and loving energies into the relationship.

Pink Topaz

Pink Topazes are considered to be the love-finder stones. Their innate Light and Fire energies help the bearer to attract the person meant for them. For people in relationships, this is also one of the best stones to wear or incorporate into your daily meditation routine if you’re having trouble communicating or understanding your partner. This stone helps connect thoughts and people through socialization and good communication. Pink Topazes are also worn to protect the bearer against evil and provide Divine protection from ill-wishers. The Ancient Romans used this stone to protect themselves from demons by hiding their own energies. This is also the perfect stone for creators, craftsmen, and people who are in the creative field.

Pink Opal

Pink Opals are considered by many to be the “Stone of Hope.” This is among the best crystals and stones for love attraction. Using this stone heals the bearer of deep, subconscious, and emotional pain that holds them back from reaching their full potential. Opals in pinkish hues are actually quite rare, which means that if you manage to find one, don’t let it go! That’s because it’s one of the most powerful Heart Chakra stones along with Rose Quartz, Emerald, and Rhodochrosite. Pink Opals give a lot of spiritual and emotional benefits to its bearer. On the one hand, it helps one deal with powerful, negative emotions and emotional states like excessive fear and anxiety. On the other, it balances one’s aura and restores the flow of energy to your heart and soul, purifying your feelings. It’s also a stone that helps foster self-love by making a person more compassionate toward himself or herself.


As I’ve mentioned, this is one of the most powerful Heart Chakra stones out there. Rhodochrosite comes in a deep, raspberry- to rose-red color and emits one of the most loving energies that you can receive from a crystal. This stone is also known as the Stone of the Compassionate Heart since it evokes selfless love that is beyond empathy, all the while helping the bearer heal himself or herself before others. Rhodochrosite teaches a person that he/she is worthy of love, health, and happiness. It harmonizes all aspects of a person’s personality so he/she could learn to love himself/herself. This stone also helps the bearer express his/her feelings better, and enhances passion and sexuality into his/her love life.

Lemon Quartz

Lemon Quartz is a really happy stone, aside from it being a stone to help you with love. It’s generally a calmer yellow than Citrine Quartz, but just like Citrine Quartz, it doesn’t need to be cleansed because it’s a self-cleansing crystal. Lemon Quartz is specifically a crystal for the Solar Plexus Chakra, the chakra that controls one’s thoughts. If you incorporate Lemon Quartz into your daily meditation routine or wear it as jewelry, you’ll be sure to feel significantly lighter and hopeful. Lemon Quartz is also known to enhance your mental powers and to give you a clear mind, especially in difficult situations. It is said to purify the bearer’s energy and aura. As for love, it’s a stone that ushers in your ideal partner and true love—the kind of love that is warm, good, and comforting. It’s also an ideal stone for relationships that needs stability or energy to keep it going.


Ancients considered the Amethyst to be the Gem of Fire and valued it next to Diamonds. The name Amethyst derives from the Greek word emetusthos which means “not intoxicated.” In Roman mythology, Amethyst was a maiden and devotee of Diana, the Roman God of Wisdom. Bacchus, the God of Wine, was insulted by her words and threatened to harm her, s